Saturday, 16 July 2016

Why are we here?


Do you ever wonder about this? What are we doing here in this world? What's the purpose behind our existence? For what reason we've been brought to this very life. What's our aim? Each and every one of us has to definitely die one day. Where will we go after dying. Will we ever be able to see our family again anyhow? Is there really an afterlife? Or at the end we will only be buried deep into the soil and get degraded there and never come into existence ever again. This everything scares me sometimes. I have been given a life. What should i do, to make this one life that i've been given, worth living.

I need to use this life to my fullest. Do something for this society, for this country, for this world, before i depart. I have such a less time to do something big.

As a traveller in this journey called life, i often frantically wonder, and all these questions keep revolving round my head. What will happen when we will die? There is this earth, all these stars and planets, bunch of galaxies, what's beyond all these? What's beyond this universe, this space?

As we can mostly see in the rains, when the rainwater gets filled or gets collected into the potholes on the road or at any other places, mostly in the shallow pits of the corners, the water usually remains stagnant. And it leads to flies and other insects wander and stray around it. And that causes many harmful diseases for the people living around that area.
This reference can also be used with our human brain. Yes, our human brain. It's a very popular saying that "an empty mind is devil's workshop". It can easily be explained as, when our brain is not in work or when we are being too lazy, lying on the bed, resting all day doing nothing progressive, i.e when it's in a stagnant position; many negative thought's begin to dwell and wonder round our brain. We tend to think about something wrong. Because when your mind is not busy, it gets frustrated inducing boredum in the sence and drive your mind to think about negative and wrong things. And that my friend's consequently causes harm to us and our life.

So don't just always be free. Don't let your brain rot. Keep yourself busy with some or the other thing, something that make you feel alive. Make your self worth living. Don't waste your life doing nothing, staring into nothingness and in the void of negative thoughts. Keep it busy and engaged with any activity that you like, that make you happy, something that is your passion. And if you haven't found or figured out yet, what your heart beats for, find that out. Go discover the world. This is a big universe and as said by Steve Jobs, "We are here to put a dent in the universe. Otherwise why else even be here."

So get up guys. Get yourself up from that lazy comfy couch, and engage yourself in some productive activity. Do something, instead of wasting this precious life. Thank your family and friends for everything, before its too late. Go out and dance under the sunshine, walk in the rain, swim in the ocean, fly in the sky, discover the world and consequently, you will discover yourself.

-Tejal Sushir





Tuesday, 5 July 2016

Giving up is an option, but not the only option.

Her heart was flammable towards the unwanted chaos of the world. No matter how much she covered her ears those taunts and puns would prick her like pointed needle. The society mortified her every single time she walked on the road. Her parents wanted her to become a well known doctor and study human biology. But she dreamt of becoming something else. Something her heart pounds for. Something of her own. Yes, she wanted to start up her own business, she dreamt of becoming an entrepreneur.

But....Yeah, in a country like India; these "buts" of society murder the only flame of passion burning within the young youths.  Many of us are familiar with Sharma uncle's son. She didn't wanted to be like him. She didn't wanted to live his life, but of her own. Family was not much supportive as they had a preconception that it won't provide her with much sum amount of money, plus there are mountains of risks in the journey of an entrepreneur especially for a girl. That latter words hit her the most.

She thought a lot about it one night, may be it does has risks. But one shouldn't drop the idea just out of fear; without even giving it a try. Her parents were in no mood to allow her for the purpose. She wanted to live her own life, rather than her parents. "What if i become a doctor. What if i make my parents proud by holding a degree of MBBS. But that wouldn't make me proud. That wouldn't make me happy. Even if i will be rich and busy with my parents contented; i wont be living a life i want. But if i wont be a doctor that would hurt my parents and i don't want that". All these thoughts kept revolving round her mind all night, and she couldn't come out with a solution making her angry and frustrated.

Just when she was about to give up, a sound echoed in her mind. Sound so familiar. It was her own voice, straight from the heart. which kept reciting motivational verses. Making her think what could her family and friends would go through by the pain of her loss. She knew giving up was an option, but not the only option. She was influenced by her own angels which encouraged her to take risk, to do something for herself. So she stood up on her feet again, all brave and careless towards the chit chat society. Walking on her own path, following her own terms and norms, being a leader but not by following others direction. She worked hard upon her passion. Though secretly from her parents, but later when they were informed by her and seeing her immense success, they were never proud of their daughter before. Seeing her work with such dedication and honesty towards something she likes a lot made their eyes wet everytime.

Today, she is the owner of a billion dollar company, with thousands employees and over 27 branches all over india. If only she had not followed her instints and her heart and had courage to do what she likes, her scenario would be completely different today.

Now, you might be wondering who is this brave woman. Well, she just exist in my words, in this story and in our minds. Yeah, its just a story but somehow somewhere based upon real life stories of great owner of great companies who have struggled a lot to reach to the sky. Who have stepped out, disagreeing with their closed ones, following their heart to become the most prestigious people today. Steve Jobs, Dick Costolo, Mark Zuckerberg and my most fav, Varun Agarwal and many others are such examples.

Just don't be afraid guys. All those taunts and pricks wont matter at all once you set up your own empire. If you have passion, will, desire and dedication towards something and you see your future really going that way, don't think about any other thing, just give it a chance and you will be the most contented and happy person and you will surely not regret the life you lived when you will look back at the past counting last days of your life.

-Tejal Sushir